Chuck and I have now been married for 7 years and I wouldn't change a thing!! All I can say is you better be careful what you pray for....as God can change everything in an instant. I had prayed for years for a husband and kids and when I tried to do things my way by adopting alone, God said, "wait a second, try this". Here is your husband and now a new baby and guess what you can still adopt. Life is good!